Guys, this is what you'll hear if you try to stop your girlfriend from going out with other guys. According to her it isn't "going out" but "
hanging out". As in
strictly friends.
Some girls who say this are a bit
hypocritical when it comes to their guy "just hanging out" alone with a
busty babe.
jealousy vs
trust
Not to mention the point that this is exactly how relationships are formed. "
Just friends" gets closer and closer, more
intimate, you bitch about your
asshole boyfriend to him,
cry on his shoulder, one thing leads to another...
Is it worth that risk? Especially considering that in practice most guys will only be "just friends" as long as they think they can get closer? If you really
love the guy, why put yourself in that situation?
And if you don't love him, you should tell him you're more into
screwing around than "
going steady".
OR, if you really do just want to be friends with guys...you have a number of
complications, from guys'
tendency, if they like you, to want you as their
girlfriend, to your own boyfriends' tendency to realize that and get
jealous.