philos

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(thing) by mblase (2.6 wk) (print)   ?   (I like it!) 1 C! Tue Sep 05 2000 at 15:58:47

The Greek word for fraternal or brotherly love, as distinct from agape and eros. It arises from friendship and familiarity between two people or between a person and a thing (a pet, a house, a country). It implies a level of intimacy and comfort with each other, as between two best friends or longtime roommates.

Philos is not a "lesser" form of love than agape, but it is "easier". It means a level of true comfort in the presence of another person, of understanding and trust. It's not a prerequisite of agape, either; you can have agape love for someone you don't trust or even like, and vice versa. But all three are necessary components of a true romantic marital relationship.

(thing) by Anacreon (2.9 mon) (print)   ?   (I like it!) Tue Sep 05 2000 at 17:11:34
'Philos' is the object of love or friendship and not the sentiment itself. The sentiment itself is actually called Philia.
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